Tamara Joan Wolf (aka Tammy, or T.J.) was born on September 27, 1961, in Bayville, New Jersey. She graduated from Interlake in 1980, and later earned an Associate’s Degree in General Studies from Seattle Community College.
Tammy began her working life at Dairy Queen, a job that launched a long and successful career in restaurant management with both Dairy Queen and Burger King. While her professional journey included a variety of interesting roles - including work with a carnival, the Seattle Seahawks, Larry’s Grocery, Washington Mutual, and a bakery - she always found her way back to restaurant management, where her dedication and people-first approach truly stood out.
Although Tammy lived in many places throughout her life, including Washington, California, and Louisiana, her heart always belonged back home where she was born, in New Jersey. She was a Jersey Girl through and through, and she loved it. Her career allowed her to travel extensively across the country, beginning on the East Coast, moving to the West Coast, and eventually settling in Louisiana, touching countless places and people along the way.
Tammy’s greatest accomplishment was her only child, William Wolf, who she loved deeply and unconditionally. Known for her selflessness, she was always willing to help others without hesitation, and never expected anything in return. Tammy was a remarkable human being whose kindness left a lasting impact on the world. She will be most remembered for her warm, contagious smile - a smile that will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.
Mardi Gras was Tammy’s favorite holiday season, just barely edging out Christmas. She made many friends at Heritage Manor in Mandeville, Louisiana, where she spent her final five years - making people laugh and, occasionally, shake their heads.
Tammy passed away on Friday, January 16, 2026. She was 64 years old.
Her obituary can be found here.